everyday in our lives, people come.. people go.. tt's probably the beauty of life.. despite all the setbacks one faces..
when people come into your lives.. there's always something to learn from tt person indeed.. even though they may just go just in a split of a second..
however, when that person does come back into your life, you'll be surprised by what a period of time can do for you.. it makes you ponder about the relationship with that person and how you've been affected.. it also makes you realise certain attributes of that person that you never knew..
i've learnt that although you may be the closest person in the world to one, certain attributes of one, either good or bad, may just surpass you.. without you noticing about it.. it makes me wonder then.. do you then actually really understand that person? what did you do to actually notice a certain attribute? maybe being too caught up?
time does not wait for humanity.. if it did, wouldn't be life be better? but on the other hand, you wouldn't be able to possess lessons in life.. lessons that will help you grow as a person.. one may be reluctant to face reality, but in this world, there's no space for reluctance..
and then, there's the question of why reluctance exists? the only answer i can think of as of yet is fear.. its amazing what fear can do to you.. you either make it.. or break it.. it's all about choices and how you deal with them..
personally, i've learnt a lot these past few weeks.. i've learnt that there are people whom you can truly depend on.. but you've somehow taken them for granted.. i've learnt that somehow out there, there are people who face the same problems as you do.. i've learnt that no matter how short or long time, a person can change for whatever reason it may be.. personal goals.. family pressure.. and even love.. change to get what you want.. change may be good.. change may be bad..
change for personal fulfilment is good.. perhaps an ex-convict volunteering himself into a humanitarian society.. a slacker seeing in the light in academics..or even change in personality, so tt you'll be liked more by others ( without sucking up of course)
change to please another person, for me, won't get you anywhere.. people had accepted you for who you are.. with a certain change, people won't look at you the same no more..
aZm
04 May 88'
Taurean
desires
Ankh/Taurus Pendant
New Wallet
Black Heels
Pair of Jeans
in order of priority
my memories
People in my life